IMAGINE...
A HOLIDAY SEASON WITHOUT FAMILY DRAMA!
IMAGINE ... no more fights with your sister or having to moderate the conversation between your dad and your brother.
IMAGINE ... not getting sucked into someone else's story of how things should go and how they would be let down if it didn't go that way (ie. how miserable their life is and how you can help if only you would do x, y, z better).
IMAGINE... choosing to do exactly what makes your heart sing...instead of trying to make everyone else happy and shouldering all of their burdens.
IMAGINE ... not being upset by Grandma Jane's comments, or not feeling pressured by mom's timetable, or even being able to say no to driving 2 hours to Great Aunt Sally's dreaded Christmas Buffet.
IMAGINE ... ending the holiday season feeling refreshed and rejuvenated. Full of love for everyone and fully confident in the soul powered decisions you made.
IMAGINE … being free to choose to attend on your terms and being filled with joy and love the entire time.
Sounds pretty fucking impossible?
But what if I told you it is totally possible and it is all in your control?!
You are moments away from drama free relationships!
HEY, I'M JACQUIE (she/her)!
AKA the Fabulously Fat Feminist. I'm so happy you've popped over here to my little corner of the Interwebs!
I'm a fat positive, body liberation advocate and general spreader of love and joy and fun. I'm worried about the future of humanity and trying to do my bit to combat the social and cultural conditioning that is keeping so many of us stuck in cycles of hate and fear so that we can all build a better world together. Less hate & division and more compassion & understanding.
And to do that I believe it all starts with each of us doing the individual work to love and accept and trust ourselves. Because before we can truly have compassion and understanding for others we need to have it for ourselves. So we need to remove all that puritanical shame and patriarchal bullshit we've been conditioned to believe and start to understand the difference between what our authentic self desires vs. what we've been taught to believe we desire.
Anyways...it's a lot to discuss in an "About Me" section on a website. So make sure you are following me on social media! I'm kinda Old School so I'm most active on Facebook.